Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Homeward Bound
So, in my last few UK moments, I find myself in the American Airlines Lounge at Heathrow - this time the lounge is very dark and old - kind of depressing compared to the very shiney duty free shop outside. There is a big sign to let us know that the new lounge is being remodeled and so we should be patient (ok). It's raining in London, Mumbai and Dallas today - so I guess I'll have to be glad to be home despite the lack of sun - no problem. I had a wonderful visit with Cecile and her family - spent much of last evening comparing jewelery with Cecile's daughter, Caroline. Apparently she is interested in me because she doesn't "have much time for putting on necklaces." Priceless - there's nothing like the 9 year old perspective to keep you humble!
I am now going to inspect the sad looking snacks on the Admirals Club table and I may go out to Duty Free to see what's happening in perfumes globally (I have a Duty Free addiction problem ever since the smell of Cartier Panthere wofted over me back in 1989 when I worked at Duty Free - more good times).
So, thanks a million for all of your untiring love and support - see you in Big D!
Until the next global adventure,
cmn
Monday, September 14, 2009
Ursuline High School Wimbledon
My friend Cecile & her children
You also see Caroline and William with their scooters. Scooters are a HUGE trend among English school children.
London Greetings
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Farewell India!!
I'd just like to mention that there are about 25 businessmen in here and three women (businesswomen?) - interesting ratio....
I think that I am suddenly looking more Indian because today everyone thought I was Indian (which has not happened too much before today). I had a long chat with the Immigration officer (so much nicer than the one on the way in) who asked me what I had seen and learned in India. He also wanted verification that I am not of Indian origin because I "look very Indian." I take that as a huge compliment that I am looking relaxed and adapted.
So, a few random final observations (some profound, some not so much):
- There is a disturbing trend among Indian men to dye their hair red - this is NOT a good look. What are they thinking??
- I am really shocked at the lack of recycling and the massive amount of packaging used everywhere (this almost killed Matt). I never saw any recycling bin or message or anything. Even Matt's laundry came back in a cardboard box with paper in between items - lots and lots of plastic packaging is used on everything - things are usually wrapped twice, once in paper and once in plastic. Scaffolding is ALL WOOD, no metal - even on high rise buildings! I can't imagine what is going to happen here if some real social consciousness is not developed in terms of resources...
- I loved visiting the elegant Taj Hotel here in Mumbai. It was beautiful but also very, very sad given the terrorist events of last year. Bullet Holes are still visible in the walls and much has been boarded up to protect the workers in shops, etc. - So many of them were killed. Shonal explained so much to us about those horrible events and about how personal it was for her - Having grown up in Mumbai going to celebrations at the Taj (including her own wedding), Shonal knew at least 20 people who died. Being here has given me a very clear picture of how horrific those days were and of the human toll ... I admire the Taj and all who work there for carrying on in the face of such trauma.
- It has been a little nuisance to be asked constantly to give customer feedback - This is a huge trend in hotels, restaurants, etc - I have never filled out so many comment cards. At the Shalimar, I practically had to beat off a housekeeping manager who was stalking me wanting feedback - I assured him that he didn't want to hear what I had to say ... It's interesting though because it's obvious that businesses are desperately wanting to be excellent and to improve.
cmn
Some (almost) final reflections
This trip has not been easy because it is hard to face the unfamiliar everyday - I have been pushed way, way beyond my comfort zone in countless ways (from trying different foods to walking through giant crowded markets to giving up control and trusting that virtual strangers will take care of me).
The contrasts and disparities in India are more extreme than I have ever experienced. The poverty is mind-numbing and completely overwhelming. I will not soon forget the people pounding on our car doors asking for money / food. Even though intellectually I know that giving money to beggars is not a good social solution, I still feel a deep guilt for every person I turned away - especially children who I know will never get a chance to rise up from their situations and go to school. I have certainly cried about some of the things I have seen - you just can't help it because so much is hopeless- Still, I believe that the work that we are doing with students will impact real social change in the long run and I remain committed to working with as many NGOs as possible because, again, that's where the real progress will be made.
As I have said, the contrasts are extreme - I think the Taj Hotel is among the most beautiful, comfortable places on earth. Inside the Taj, you can shop at Mont Blanc, Louis Vuitton, Prada and more of the finest Western stores. There are polo clubs and cricket clubs (British legacy) and country clubs (had a wonderful time there myself). The women here win the global fashion competition, hands down - The colors, textures and designs of the gorgeous, lush, sparkling clothes are infinite - I can't stop gawking at the clothing - the women are adorned so beautifully - it almost looks like they are floating as the colorful scarves everso casually flow behind them as they walk..
Well, of course I have more that I'd like to share but I must run to British Airways ... will try to report from the airport ...
cmn
My last day in India
Step by Step School in Delhi
Currently, the school is k-8 but plans to grow to 2500 students in k-12. The campus is still under construction but will soon fill the 10 acre site with state of the art facilities, athletic areas and a center for Faculty Professional Development. It's such a happy space which encourages creativity in children- note the slide in the picture which goes between two floors. We had a fascinating conversation with the school administrators about how India is such an exam driven country and how teenagers are under terrible pressure to do well on the national exams. This school embraces a much more inquiry-based learning philosophy and encourages children to be independent thinkers who realize the importance of giving back to their communities. It's a very new methodology in India but Mrs. Adams and her team are convinced that students should enjoy learning and that education must change because our world has changed (sound familiar?). It was SUCH a dynamic conversation! I recommended the documentary 2 Million Minutes to the administrators and asked them to let me know their thoughts (we'll be watching it at UA soon with our Global Book & Movie Club).
The American Embassy School
During our visit, we met with the principal, Tim Boyle (so warm and friendly), and with Vera Garg, Social Studies teacher (so enthusiastic and scholarly). From our conversation, we learned that AES places emphasis on student led projects. They firmly believe that the high school student should take responsibility for his / her education so students always attend parent / teacher conferences.
Another impressive fact about AES is that the students are from 48 different nationalities and 40% of the students are American citizens. Global Citizenship is a major part of the school's mission and each lesson must include multiple cultural perspectives. In fact, all Social Studies essays must include views from 3 different historians with 3 different cultural perspectives.
All in all, this school is superb - I am bringing back a copy of the student newspaper to share with our UA students because it is very festive.
cmn
Friday, September 11, 2009
Mumbai by night
The Mallya Aditi School in Bangalore
Highlights from Bangalore Int'l School
Thoughts on Water, Traffic & more
Water is a topic I've been meaning to address here. It's a major issue as I had heard. Hotels make gentle requests of guests to be mindful of the water (as they do in most places now) but here the request is made with much more detail such as "turn on only the hot water while you are waiting for the water to warm so as not to waste the cold water." We always have bottled water everywhere (hotels, restaurants, etc.) so all of that plastic is a major issue as well. At the Leela, our first hotel, we received a detailed letter about how the monsoon season has been unusually dry this year (clearly before our arrival) and so they asked that guests please shower rather than bathe as that takes less water.
Traffic is another big topic. In Delhi, we went to Shonal's house for dinner. It should have taken us about 10 minutes but it took us over an hour going literally inch by inch- it was HORRIFIC. If we'd known how to get to her house, we could have walked much more easily. The honking never stopped. At that point, Matt decided to serenade me by singing some unknown-to-me Rod Stewart song so I knew he had really lost it - I think we were both delirious from the stress. We finally just had to laugh and joined in singing of Elton John's "Rocket Man" and we emphasized the line about how it's going to be a "long, long time"- which is exactly how I was feeling at the time! I cannot imagine having to face driving in that kind of traffic daily but I know hundreds of thousands of people do so everyday ... Driving in Big D has never looked so good..
So Shonal, our refined and complex companion, is taking us to the Mumbai Yacht & Country Club for dinner - wow! Shonal blows my mind everyday - the layers of my new friend are slowly revealed. She is from an upperclass family and her father had a stainless steel business. Her father had a very forward-thinking philosophy and he made sure that his daughters had opportunities to work and travel the world before they got married. Shonal had an arranged marriage and her husband's family has a business of mustard oil, the main ingredient in eastern Indian cuisine. It's obvious that Shonal could stay at home and never work on anything at all if she were so inclined. However, she is so, so committed to education and to working for a better future for the younger generation and those less fortunate. I really, really admire her because she knocks herself out everyday - her cell phone NEVER stops ringing as she tries to balance home and work. She is a mover and a shaker - and what fortitude to be dealing with me and Matt. AND, by the way, in addition to her teacher professional development company, she also oversees her family's committment to sustaining a rural school for 110 deaf impoverished children - Oh my goodness, WHAT an inspiration!!
Well, my two travel companions are soon to arrive so that we can set out on another day of adventure. I'd like to send a special "shout-out" to the students of Spanish IV at our Academy who I hear are following this blog with great enthusiasm - Thank you!! (BTW, I've learned that the study of Spanish is really growing in India - !Que felicidad!) I will be beyond excited if a few members of our student community register as as official "followers" - it will make me feel very "in" and modern which is important to me as you know.
Hasta Pronto from Mumbai,
cmn
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Back in Mumbai
So we have arrived at our hotel - The Shalimar. I'm sure it was a nice hotel once upon a time. Perhaps we'll leave it at that - Mumbai is a city where so many have so little (or nothing) that I can't allow myself to complain too much (as tempting as it may be). And speaking of Mumbai, this city perplexes me ... When we were here last time, we only experienced our lavish hotel (near the airport) and then we just saw one shanty town after another as we left the city for Pune. Tonight, we are in a completely different part of the city, the south. The marine drive (along the Arabian sea) is nearby but we couldn't really see any water as it was dark (will report on the view later). There were some buildings that look quite fabulous and modern so I think we may be near a Bollywood hotspot. We also saw a brand new Rolls Royce driving along the freeway which seemed like the most decadent and absurd reality yet...
Well, it's very late (or very early) and we have another big day tomorrow. I will publish more info and pictures from our school visits asap - part of my issue this evening was that the internet does not work in my room and so I am using the business center which they were kind enough to open for me in the middle of the night.
For those of you who know Matt (and even if you don't), you'll be happy to know that his Student Leadership workshops have been a huge hit, especially the one today at the Sanskriti School in Delhi - so, even though our pace has been somewhat brutal, we are enjoying some success and kind attention.
Good night from Mumbai!
cmn
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Quick note from Delhi
I have really enjoyed Delhi, the city where Shonal resides by the way. This is also the capital of India and the area where the embassies are is very green and beautiful. There is a huge park area with gardens and museums but our schedule won't allow us a visit this trip (yes, I have been whining about our non-cultural schedule). So, I hope to explore it closely one day in the near future (perhaps with teachers and students?? - we shall see).
Well, my "driver" has arrived so I will shut of the 10,000 different light switches in my hotel room (very confusing) and I'll be on my way...
Best from Delhi,
cmn
The Canadian Int'l School - Bangalore
A few minor challenges
One thing that is just ringing in my ears is the incessant honking - it never, ever, ends. Drivers honk almost as a greeting - to the 10 million people and the other drivers all around. Things are very loud - lots of noise from cell phones, cars, speakers, shouting and more - it is stressful!!
Also, the service is so excellent that it is almost suffocating. There is someone perched outside my hotel door at this very minute in case I need something, or anything - I have already asked the housekeeper gentleman to PLEASE not worry about turning down my bed. The minute I get out of a car, someone is right there. Waiters and shopkeepers hover VERY closely - I made the mistake of trying to move a hanger in a store and I was rushed by a group of salesladies who did not want me to bother myself with moving the hanger. I appreciate the hotel bellmen not allowing one single drop of rain to fall on me but it is almost exhausting to have to give instruction on how many ice cubes I would like plinked into my glass... Well, I KNOW I should be grateful - I just need a little space - a little "organizational moment" as I tell the kids.
My last and final "complaint" is that every snack that we have bought has been really, really ancient and WAY passed expiration. I can't even describe my disappointment at the hotel mini-bar snickers - it was "white"and it was NOT white chocolate. AYYY
Matt is here telling me that my organizational moment is over - THANKS SO MUCH.. I know we are going to have a delightful evening with Shonal and her family so I will go for now - Thanks for listening!!
cmn
Monday, September 7, 2009
United World College, Pune
Random tid bits & observations
So, before going on and on about more school visits (which have been so, so interesting), I want to share a few random pieces of information & observations - forgive the list form but I am trying to write quickly in order to conserve the battery..
- The Pune airport is not somewhere you want to be when you are hungry. We were served some very stale potato chips and then Matt accused me of trying to kill him by offering him some M&Ms which seriously must have been produced in 1974
- Also of note in the Pune airport are the separate security areas for men and women - I'm not sure if this is religious sensitivity at its best or if it's just a way for gals to have a little frendly chat as they are being screened in a little curtain-surrounded booth - my guard wanted to know all about me, my heritage, family etc. It was a lovely social encounter but not the most efficient security check I've seen..
- Our American size carry-ons were way larger than the carry-ons allowed by the Indian airlines so, guess what?? We HAD to check our luggage which means there was NO POINT in my having only carry-on bags!!!! AY DIOS MIO - All I can say is that Matt has apologized and has admitted that he was all wrong on the luggage requirements. He is also now carrying all my bags of treasures..
- Motorbikes are everywhere - millions of them! There are lots of women (many college students) who ride them in Pune and they are known as the "female masked bandits of Pune" because they wear scarves to protect them from the dust - they are way cool and today I saw a bright pink motor bike (very Hello Kitty bandit) and nowI kind of want one
- We have seen many random cows walking in traffic - unaccompanied - I am so curious - where are they going???
- Today we had to stop the car for a giant SNAKE crossing (slithering across) the road - I really freaked out on that one
- I also saw a monkey walking across the road the other day in the mountains near Pune - who knew??
- Monsoon season is a bit depressing - today we saw the sun for the first time since our arrival - all this rain also encourages mosquitos which are all after me - let's hope I made the right decision in not taking malaria pills
Well, these are the thoughts on my mind in addition to the fact that my laundry disappeared today and hasn't been returned - Matt's came back but I'll be sleeping in a blouse tonight due to my extremely limited wardrobe and the fact that I need to be somewhat covered as mosquito protection - Oh what an adventure!!! Hope all in the USA are enjoying the holiday as we labor away (in a good way) here in India.
cmn :)
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Cultural thrills and new friends in Pune
Jotti was THRILLED about taking us shopping and she informed Vishwas that he would be coming along as well. The local market district was madness in terms of crowds, sounds, vehicles, etc. Jotti told me that it was "empty" by Indian standards. I can only compare the experience to shopping in the mega crowds of Shanghai but even there we were surrounded by tourists. The area in Pune was definitely an area for the locals - Poor blonde Matt caused quite a sensation!